A few weeks ago I was talking to a group of Korean parents
about the education system in America. The topic started to stray, as things
tend to do, towards books and reading. I asked how many parents read to their
children. No hands were raised.
I began pushing them harder on the importance of reading to
the youngest children as often as possible. No one seemed very interested in my
point of view. One father started explaining how he used WII games to relate to
his children and encouraged them to explore their curiosity. He mentioned how
he played guitar hero with his two children and now one of them was taking
guitar lessons. Nice, but not really my point.
Fast forward a few weeks later. Someone brought in a Korean
newspaper that listed the top 200 colleges in the world according to said
paper. They were very intrigued that my daughter is currently attending their
so-called number eight. “I would like advice on how my children can attend such
a prestigious university,” the guitar hero-loving Dad said to me. “How can I
prepare them for admission to this university?” he asked.
Hmm. We’ve already been over this, I thought to myself,
smiling ever so politely. Didn’t I mention the importance of reading to your
kids? What kinds of reading passages will you find on the all required
standardized test including the SATs? Mostly nonfiction. What is the most
important piece of writing a student will do before college? A 500 word non
fiction piece about themselves commonly called the college essay.
Korean students have even more pressure to perform well
because the entrance exam is the sole determining factor for college
acceptance. There are too many students for too few spots and the competition
can cause parents to push their children to start preparing for the exam in
after school classes as early as elementary school. With a secure career
totally dependent upon the kind of college a student attends, prestige takes a
surprisingly prominent role in early childhood development.
There are plenty of practical reasons for children to read,
especially nonfiction, if prestige is your ultimate goal. But phooey on
prestige. What kind of goal is that for your children’s ultimate well being?
Reading a vast assortment of books to your kids encourages in them a love of
reading, gathering and synthesizing information, and exploring fantasy worlds
and far away planets. They will then read about things that intrigue them and
things they knew nothing about. In other words, reading early and often will
encourage their own intellectual curiosity. They don’t have rankings for that,
but if they did, that would be a list worth aiming for.
Update: Last week I connived a way to fit a favorite children's book into my lesson plan. One student asked if she could borrow it for a few days. Today she returned it, smiling, and said her son had really enjoyed it. Slow but sure, one convert at a time. I'll take it!
Update: Last week I connived a way to fit a favorite children's book into my lesson plan. One student asked if she could borrow it for a few days. Today she returned it, smiling, and said her son had really enjoyed it. Slow but sure, one convert at a time. I'll take it!
6 comments:
Great post, Linda. One convert at a time.
Before children – “I’ll read to my children every night.”
After the firstborn – ““I’ll read tomorrow, I’m too busy and tired tonight.”
After the third one – “I’ve wasted all these years not reading…let’s start now!”
So, I found a 50c copy of the illustrated “Wizard of Oz” and surprised how much we ALL enjoyed it.
Now, we read every night (tired or not). Now, it’s the best part of our evening. Now, the children LOVE reading on their own too.
We’re reading “Charlotte’s Web” now.
We’ll be reading a non-fiction book next (thank you for this post).
So true, Linda. It really helps to keep that lesson in mind - one reader at a time!
I was astonished by this. Why do you think Korean parents seemed more reluctant to read to their children? Is this a cultural thing? Are there other cultures where reading to children is unusual?
And yet, most of my nonfiction books have sold Korean rights. Sometimes for repeated printings. I was told that in Korea, traveling salesfolk sell GOBS of children's books to parents...?
I think it's a universal problem. Did you see the article in the NY Times this past Tuesday? http://www.nytimes.com/2011/10/25/us/screen-time-higher-than-ever-for-children-study-finds.html
A high percentage of parents tend to put a TV in their child's room and hand them their ipad to keep them entertained rather than sit down and read to them.
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